The SSAT practice test can be very intimidating for both children and adults. Due to this initial stress factor most children react in ways such as not wanting to study and parents start to panic and put extra pressure on the child. In these situations it is better to take a step back and approach the situation in another way.
Here is a 3 step plan to get your child back on track.
1. Find a SSAT practice test study program that is fun and not boring. Software with a real teacher who verbally explains material covered:
If your child is at a point where they do not want to study then you should take a serious look at the methods you are using. Most likely it is boring and dry which would make parents go hide in a closet if they had to learn the stuff. So why are we making our kids do it? Find a study program, preferably software on the computer where most children are more comfortable using than learning with books. The more interaction the better! There should be a learning section where there is someone who is actually explaining the material. This speeds up the learning process immensely and it is much easier to understand if someone is explaining it to you. Then of course you need practice tests, just like at the real SSAT. This method actually makes learning fun. Fun of course leads to success. Try it out.
2. Set up a realistic learning plan WITH your child to reach realistic goals:
Most likely you as a parent are more motivated than your child. This motivation is signaled as pressure to your child. Stop right now and rethink your strategy. How can I get my child motivated again? If parents tell their children to do it, it is a definite motivation killer. Take the time to put together a study plan together WITH your child. Only then it will make sense for your child to start learning, since they were actively involved in setting up their own plan.
3. Find a reward system to help keep your child motivated:
If you work hard on something then you most likely want to see something from it. Don't you? Children do to; but it certainly isn't the score on the SSAT since it is too far down the road. Children want mini rewards each step of the way. So parents give them those rewards deserved. But stop right there... Money is not the answer. Do something with your child together. Go to a movie, go for an ice cream or play soccer in the backyard. Your child wants your recognition on their achievement so reward together.
So there you have it the 3 step motivation plan; finding the best software, setting up a realistic study plan and rewarding your child. But please don't forget to do it together since that is the real secret.